Ashleigh+Kivinen

HI Ashleigh, i love you more than anything in this world!! :) -Joe Groot I had a paradigm shift one time when I first met the one person. When I first met them I thought they were a little odd and socially awkward. We had dinner and this is where I first thought this, we then went shopping and they completely acted like a littbbble kid in the store. Also the person would just say things that were a little off and I would never know just how to respond. Awhile after meeting this person someone else told me (a relative of the person) that the once had had a brain tumor. To say the least after I found this out I felt like a complete jerk for thinking everything I had. I also viewed this person completly different, they never once told me or mentioned it to anyone. Simply because they wanted everyone to think of them the same as they did eveyone else. Unlike what others in their situation might do, some might use it to get attention or even for empathy. This whole experience has taught me not to be so quick to think something of or judge someone before I really get to know them.